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Playful prose

Interact

Here’s how to be playful with a gorgeous woman without hurting yourself:
* Read the Room:
   * Observe her body language: Is she smiling, making eye contact, and leaning in? These are good signs she’s receptive to playful banter.
   * Gauge her personality: Is she generally playful and lighthearted, or more reserved? Tailor your approach accordingly.
* Start Light and Observe:
   * Tease gently: A playful jab about her love for a certain band or her messy desk can be endearing.
   * Use humor: Tell a funny story or make a witty observation.
   * Pay attention to her reaction: Does she laugh? Smile? Roll her eyes playfully? This is crucial feedback. If she seems uncomfortable or dismissive, back off.
* Keep it Respectful:
   * Never resort to insults or put-downs. This is never playful, it’s just mean.
   * Avoid anything that could be misconstrued as sexual harassment.
   * Focus on her personality and interests, not her appearance. (Though a genuine compliment on something she’s done or accomplished is always appreciated.)
* Be a Good Listener:
   * Pay attention to what she says and respond thoughtfully.
   * Let her tease you back. Playful banter is a two-way street.
* Know When to Stop:
   * If she seems uncomfortable or disengaged, stop immediately.
   * Don’t push your luck. If something you say falls flat, move on to another topic.
Important Note: Playfulness should always be consensual and enjoyable for both parties. If it’s not, it’s not playful, it’s just awkward or worse.
Disclaimer: This advice is for general social interaction. If you have concerns about your own behavior or interactions, it’s always best to consult with a therapist or counselor.

Stay in bounds!.

Sleep

Good  night

We’re with you…

December 30, are you up to date…

You are not a magician. You’ve got to rely on you and your others. And you don’t want to be a burden on anybody, including yourself. Make plans. Years are coming. Decades are flying. Centuries are looming. + You don’t want to miss a thing.

Blast from the past

Dino, Dean Martin was a wonderful actor. You often played a drunk  so don’t you play a drunk? He’s already played it enough for everybody for a long time.

Bus tour

Adventure center P/U

Be at Spirit square at 5:45 p.m. December 19th and 20th. Pay $5 for a seat on the city bus. Go on a tour of the lights for Christmas.

Call 778-661-0879 book a seat…

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Good luck Christmas bird counters…

Alan Burger and the Nicola naturalist Society Incorporated are out today doing their Christmas bird count. Nearly three decades  of service…
Humming bird.

Nice if they counted some of these…

Star struck

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Yes….

I love all that you are…

The Nicola Naturalist Society  INC is having its bird count on Saturday the 14th of December in Merritt BC. This will be the 26th annual count by volunteer members. The stats are compiled and sent to the Audubon Society.

Get counted this Christmas, Heron Nicola River.
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By the By pyro beetle

This pyror beetle showed up after the wildfires of 2023. I believe it was anyway. It was photographed on a wooden edge of an apartment building. These beetles live on burnt wood according to sources.

Pyro beetle

Grab Winter, and smoog

Good night

Have a great evening you are so cool…

MCC

Where else are you going to be?…

This is not an ad  it’s an opportunity to comment.

The Merritt and District Chamber of Commerce  is long in the tooth here in our South Central interior British Columbia town /city.

We have observed over time the effectiveness of this small organization + its worthiness by being linked to numbers of other organizations such as local government, provincial government hydro. And anybody? Trying to make a buck in a livelihood in our country, CC work.

Our life here above 600 m would not be the same without the hard-working volunteers and business people that come together in this medium.

We recall that the first bit of fiber optic cable came to the local chamber of Commerce office when it was located in the Grand hotel on Garcia and Nicola in Merritt.

Generations have come and gone and had their time and got their hands dirty in the Commerce and construction of the business community here.

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Where else are you going to be?…

News worthy : Social event available…

Hurricane Oscar

Canada has issued a weather alert concerning hurricane Oscar that would affect possible people going to Cuba.

Weather is to be respected
Voting time in BC

This atmospheric River showed up around election day. Is the universe trying to tell somebody something? Not how to vote we don’t think. But we need to have a life and we have to be careful with our stuff 😔