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TGIF- Friday Child

Three Friday Childs

Finding successful individuals born on a Friday is quite a broad task, as one out of every seven people falls into this category. However, several world-altering figures and legendary icons were born on the final day of the workweek.Here are three high-achieving people born on a Friday:

1. Henry Ford

* Born: Friday, July 30, 1863 * Achievement: Founder of the Ford Motor Company and a pioneer of the modern assembly line. * Impact: Ford didn’t just invent a car; he revolutionized the entire manufacturing industry with “Fordism”—the mass production of inexpensive goods coupled with high wages for workers. This approach made the automobile accessible to the middle class and fundamentally changed global transportation and urban planning.

2. Frida Kahlo

* Born: Friday, July 6, 1907 * Achievement: Renowned Mexican painter famous for her uncompromising and brilliantly colored self-portraits. * Impact: Kahlo is celebrated for her depictions of the female experience, chronicling themes of identity, post-colonialism, gender, and class in Mexican society. Today, she is a global icon for the feminist and LGBTQ+ movements, as well as a symbol of Mexican national and indigenous tradition.

3. Christopher Plummer

* Born: Friday, December 13, 1929 * Achievement: Academy Award, Tony Award, and Emmy Award-winning actor. * Impact: Over a career spanning seven decades, Plummer became one of the most respected actors in history. He is best known for his role as Captain von Trapp in The Sound of Music, but he also made history by becoming the oldest person to win an acting Oscar at age 82 for his role in Beginners.

Fridays Child

Photo KDG, Graphic displayed on parade route Merritt BC Canada at recent community event…

The “Friday Child” concept stems from the traditional English nursery rhyme Monday’s Child, which has been used for centuries to predict a child’s character based on their day of birth.

According to the poem:

“Friday’s child is loving and giving.”> Because Friday is historically ruled by Venus—the planet of love, beauty, and harmony—the “makeup” of a Friday-born individual is often viewed through a lens of empathy and aesthetics.The Personality MakeupIf we look at the folklore and astrological associations, a Friday child’s personality is built on three main pillars:

* Radical Generosity:

True to the rhyme, they are “loving and giving.” This often manifests as a high degree of emotional intelligence. They are the peacemakers of a social group, often prioritizing the needs of others to maintain harmony. * Aesthetic Sensitivity: Being “Venusian,” these individuals often have a deep appreciation for the arts, fashion, and nature. They don’t just want things to work; they want them to be beautiful.

* Social Magnetism:

There is often a natural “pull” to their personality. They tend to be charming and persuasive, not through force, but through a gentle, welcoming energy that makes others feel seen and valued.

The Rhetoric of a Friday Child

In the world of communication and persuasion (rhetoric), a Friday child leans heavily into Pathos—the appeal to emotion. Here is how they typically “speak” to the world:

Rhetorical Style Description

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The Diplomat

They use inclusive language (“we” instead of “I”) to build consensus and avoid unnecessary friction.

The Idealist

Their arguments are often framed around the “greater good” or the moral beauty of a solution.

Soft Power

Rather than using aggressive logic or authority, they persuade through storytelling and by building a shared emotional connection with their audience.

Summary of Traits *

Strengths:

Compassion, artistic flair, diplomacy, and a nurturing spirit.

Thank goodness it’s Friday and there’s nice people born everyday and lots on Fridays

* Challenges:

A tendency to avoid necessary conflict or to give so much of themselves that they face burnout.

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Thursday Torque

People born on Thursdays are often referred to as “Thursday’s children.” Here are three notable individuals born on this day who have distinguished themselves:
1. Charles Darwin – Renowned naturalist and biologist, best known for his theory of evolution and the concept of natural selection.
2. Robert Downey Jr. – Acclaimed actor and producer. He is famous for his role as Iron Man in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. He is also known for his impactful performances in various films.
3. Adele – Globally celebrated singer-songwriter. She is known for her powerful voice. Her soulful ballads have resonated with millions around the world.

A nursery rhyme traditionally associates Thursday’s children with specific traits. These attributes apply to children born on each day of the week. The rhyme suggests that Thursday’s children are “full of woe,” which carries a connotation of melancholy or sadness. This idea can shape people’s perceptions. Those familiar with the rhyme might see individuals or characters linked with Thursday as destined for a more difficult life. They may view them as having a troubled existence.

In rhetoric, the phrase will be used metaphorically to discuss themes of hardship, resilience, or destiny. It often evokes sympathy or deeper emotional resonance when referencing individuals who bear this “Thursday” label. The evocative nature of the name can resonate with audiences, stirring reflections on fate and the challenges faced in life.

Unkown person dealing with inclamate conditions.

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Calf Calamity cooled

Black meat cows

In a field in Merritt BC. Canada, Circa 2007

File photo KDG

I don’t know what happened if this one fella was out on that ice.

Wednesday charm, Planets again

Well here’s the answer, less access…

Well safety first, but who do you trust.

Venues

Olympics a place for young people to thrive…

University a good safe place,I have limited answers. Church work military? Preditors everywhere ..

I would think there’s a special place in hell for people take advantage of the innocent trying to establish themselves and their young lives.

But that’s cold comfort after the fact.excuse the pun…

Leave no trace

Do not feed the animals. Do not leave food around.

When exploring the lush forests of British Columbia, your primary responsibility is to minimize your impact on these delicate ecosystems by strictly adhering to Leave No Trace principles. This means more than just packing out your trash; it involves staying on marked trails to prevent soil erosion and avoiding the removal of any natural features like rocks, plants, or fossils. Equally important is the directive to never feed the wildlife. While a squirrel or bird might seem harmless, human food disrupts their natural foraging behaviors and can lead to dangerous habituation. In BC’s “bear country,” an animal that associates humans with food often becomes a safety risk and, unfortunately, is frequently destroyed by conservation officers as a result.The Priority: Fire Safety and PreparednessWhile cleanliness and wildlife respect are vital, the protocol of wildfire prevention and emergency preparedness is arguably of the greatest importance. BC’s forests are increasingly susceptible to devastating fires, so checking current fire bans and ensuring any permitted campfires are fully extinguished—until the ashes are cool to the touch—is a non-negotiable duty. Furthermore, the rugged terrain of the Pacific Northwest is notoriously unforgiving. Visitors must always carry the “Ten Essentials” (such as a light source, navigation, and extra water) and leave a detailed trip plan with someone reliable.

In the vast wilderness of the province, being prepared for a sudden change in weather or a navigation error is the difference between a successful hike and a search-and-rescue operation.

Ten Essentials

Checklist of the “Ten Essentials” specifically tailored for a day hike in the BC coastal mountains?

Building on your 10 Essentials, here are some excellent beginner-to-intermediate trails. I’ve selected a mix of coastal and interior routes that showcase the diverse landscapes of BC.Lower Mainland (Coastal Mountains)These trails are perfect for getting a feel for coastal humidity, mossy terrain, and sudden fog. * Dog Mountain (Mount Seymour, North Vancouver): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: A local favorite for a reason. It’s relatively flat but very rooty (watch your footing!). The reward is a spectacular panoramic view of Vancouver and the Burrard Inlet. * Lindeman Lake (Chilliwack Lake Provincial Park): * Level: Intermediate. * The Vibe: A bit of a “hustle” up a rocky path, but it leads to a stunning turquoise sub-alpine lake. It’s a great place to practice your “Insulation” essential, as the air temperature drops significantly once you reach the water. * Quarry Rock (Deep Cove, North Vancouver): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: A classic wood-and-rock trail through lush rainforest. It offers a great view of Indian Arm and is a perfect spot to test out your “Sun Protection” even under the canopy.The Interior (High Plateau & Grasslands)The Interior offers a completely different “vibe”—drier air, sagebrush, and expansive views. Your “Hydration” and “Sun Protection” essentials are the MVPs here. * Kentucky Lake Loop (Kentucky-Alleyne Provincial Park, near Merritt): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: An easy, mostly flat 4km loop around a lake with water so turquoise you’d swear you were in the Caribbean. It’s very exposed, so that wide-brimmed hat is a must. * Tower Trail (Kenna Cartwright Park, Kamloops): * Level: Intermediate. * The Vibe: This park is the largest municipal park in BC. The Tower Trail involves a steady climb through sagebrush and ponderosa pines, leading to a “dive” into a 360-degree view of the Kamloops city and the junction of the North and South Thompson Rivers. * Myra Canyon Trestles (Kettle Valley Rail Trail, Kelowna): * Level: Beginner (Length is the only challenge). * The Vibe: While technically a rail trail, the 12km section through Myra Canyon takes you over 18 historic trestle bridges and through 2 tunnels. It’s flat but provides an incredible “Interior” mountain experience with massive canyon drops.Note: If you are heading into the Interior during the summer, always check the BC Wildfire Service map before you go. The “Fire” essential is for emergencies only—Interior BC often has strict campfire bans due to the dry climate.

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Building on your 10 Essentials, here are some excellent beginner-to-intermediate trails. I’ve selected a mix of coastal and interior routes that showcase the diverse landscapes of BC.Lower Mainland (Coastal Mountains)These trails are perfect for getting a feel for coastal humidity, mossy terrain, and sudden fog. * Dog Mountain (Mount Seymour, North Vancouver): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: A local favorite for a reason. It’s relatively flat but very rooty (watch your footing!). The reward is a spectacular panoramic view of Vancouver and the Burrard Inlet. * Lindeman Lake (Chilliwack Lake Provincial Park): * Level: Intermediate. * The Vibe: A bit of a “hustle” up a rocky path, but it leads to a stunning turquoise sub-alpine lake. It’s a great place to practice your “Insulation” essential, as the air temperature drops significantly once you reach the water. * Quarry Rock (Deep Cove, North Vancouver): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: A classic wood-and-rock trail through lush rainforest. It offers a great view of Indian Arm and is a perfect spot to test out your “Sun Protection” even under the canopy.The Interior (High Plateau & Grasslands)The Interior offers a completely different “vibe”—drier air, sagebrush, and expansive views. Your “Hydration” and “Sun Protection” essentials are the MVPs here. * Kentucky Lake Loop (Kentucky-Alleyne Provincial Park, near Merritt): * Level: Beginner. * The Vibe: An easy, mostly flat 4km loop around a lake with water so turquoise you’d swear you were in the Caribbean. It’s very exposed, so that wide-brimmed hat is a must. * Tower Trail (Kenna Cartwright Park, Kamloops): * Level: Intermediate. * The Vibe: This park is the largest municipal park in BC. The Tower Trail involves a steady climb through sagebrush and ponderosa pines, leading to a “dive” into a 360-degree view of the Kamloops city and the junction of the North and South Thompson Rivers. * Myra Canyon Trestles (Kettle Valley Rail Trail, Kelowna): * Level: Beginner (Length is the only challenge). * The Vibe: While technically a rail trail, the 12km section through Myra Canyon takes you over 18 historic trestle bridges and through 2 tunnels. It’s flat but provides an incredible “Interior” mountain experience with massive canyon drops.Note: If you are heading into the Interior during the summer, always check the BC Wildfire Service map before you go. The “Fire” essential is for emergencies only—Interior BC often has strict campfire bans due to the dry climate.

Murder not ruled out…

Saudi prince, murdered Journalist, dismissal, sad,

So you’re an impoverished yet attractive youth. Somebody offers you a ride on a jet to an exotic part of the world and pretends to be your benefactor. What do you say without these contexts?.

Means world reconing coming due.

Princely price

Sadly there is a senerio that precludes murder, the price of silence when calculators smell compromise after illicet pleasure. That’s the death of victims.

Khasasohoggi ghost restless?

Is this stuff ever fully purged when it collapses. You can’t just get the vine you got to get the root. So good luck!….

Is it possible that reports sulfuric acid on the internet are legit.

For people that know how to plead and get prison terms that lets them out at night. It’s not a stretch to think, think that they know about the necessity of a body prove a crime.

This is so sad 😭 that it defies any sense of redemption anywhere?….

Conscience gone?

The most disgusting part is the perpetrators would have had to somehow seared their conscience, to continue, or does the sense of unlimited funds justifies something, that is something most of us will never get the opportunity to find out.Or should want to…

So let’s keep speculation down and continue on and encourage the reasonable authoriies that are left that resources need to be applied. Looks like it’s going to be a world judgment.

Points

Is trickle down done for good?

Should we boycott the president’s plans of rededication of the United States as one nation under God.

The State of the Union speech…

One Two three four, what are we fighting for?…

Be Present

At least we are in Canada, we don’t consider greatness. We consider happiness,joy and the common community…

What a mess…

stay safe

Burrowing owls

7:00 p.m. NVIT top of the hill Battle Shaw avenue in Merritt.

Free parking,

Trauma Triggers

Film Forte

http://youtube.com/post/UgkxM7sUXWWd5sklb1aqsUD2AZ_ldC-dnsjP?si=W5OAGp65jXiZ3wBA

Is this another taking advantage in a vicious circle?

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Our (prop review) research

Trauma

Dealing with trauma and its physiological “imprints” requires understanding that trauma isn’t just a memory of the past; it is a physical reset of how your brain and body perceive safety in the present.1. Trauma, Triggers, and Imprints * Trauma: This is the emotional and physical response to an event that overwhelms your ability to cope. It shifts the nervous system into a chronic state of “survival mode.” * Imprints: This refers to how trauma is stored in the body. The “body keeps the score” through a hyper-sensitive Amygdala (the brain’s smoke detector) and a suppressed Prefrontal Cortex (the logic center). Even if you don’t “think” about the event, your muscles may tense, or your heart rate may spike when the body senses a familiar pattern. * Triggers: These are sensory inputs (a smell, a tone of voice, a specific date) that the brain associates with the original trauma. A trigger causes the “imprint” to activate, making you feel as though the danger is happening right now.2. Who Should You Avoid?When healing, “social safety” is paramount. You may need to distance yourself from: * Invalidators: People who tell you to “just get over it” or minimize your experience. This prevents the nervous system from de-escalating. * Chaos-Seekers: Individuals who thrive on high-conflict or unpredictable behavior. A traumatized nervous system needs predictability to heal. * The Original Source: If the trauma was caused by specific people, “no contact” or “low contact” is often a clinical necessity to allow the brain to stop scanning for threats.3. Legitimate TreatmentsTraditional “talk therapy” is often not enough because trauma is stored in the “primitive” parts of the brain that don’t use language. The most effective treatments focus on the mind-body connection: * EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing): Uses bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or tapping) to “unstick” traumatic memories so the brain can process them into normal past events. * Somatic Experiencing (SE): Focuses on the physical sensations in the body. It helps you “discharge” the frozen energy of the fight/flight/freeze response. * DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy): Highly effective for learning “distress tolerance”—the ability to handle a trigger without spiraling. * Neurofeedback: A non-invasive “gym for the brain” that helps retrain brainwave patterns that have been stuck in high-alert modes.4. Where Self-Care Fits InIn the context of trauma, self-care is not a “treat”; it is nervous system regulation. It is the daily “maintenance” that keeps your baseline stress level low enough that triggers don’t cause a total collapse. * Vagus Nerve Stimulation: Simple acts like humming, deep rhythmic breathing, or splashing cold water on your face can physically signal your body to “rest and digest.” * Establishing “The Nest”: Creating a living environment that is physically and visually calm. * Routine: Because trauma is rooted in the “unexpected,” having a rigid daily routine provides a mechanical sense of safety to the brain.A High-Value Next StepSince you mentioned taking the word “dive” under advisement in your saved information, I have kept this response grounded in clear, actionable pillars.Would you like me to provide a list of specific grounding techniques you can use the moment a trigger occurs to “bring yourself back” to the present?

Trigger

When a trigger occurs, your brain’s “smoke detector” (the amygdala) has hijacked your system, convinced that a past danger is happening in the present. The goal of grounding is to mechanically force your brain to acknowledge the current physical environment, which signals to your nervous system that you are safe.Here are three tiers of grounding techniques, ranging from mental distraction to physical “shocks” to the system.1. The 5-4-3-2-1 Sensory MethodThis is the “gold standard” for pulling your focus out of an internal emotional spiral and back into the room. * 5 things you can see: Look for small details (the grain in wood, a speck of dust). * 4 things you can feel: The texture of your shirt, the hard floor under your boots, the temperature of the air. * 3 things you can hear: Distant traffic, a humming fridge, your own breathing. * 2 things you can smell: Coffee, old books, or even just the “scent” of the air. * 1 thing you can taste: If you don’t have food, notice the lingering taste of toothpaste or simply the roof of your mouth.2. Physical “System Resets”When the “imprint” is causing a high-energy panic (racing heart, shaking), you need a physical stimulus to break the loop. * The Dive Reflex: Splash ice-cold water on your face or hold an ice pack to your eyes/cheekbones for 30 seconds. This triggers a biological response that slows the heart rate and redirects blood flow to the brain and heart. * Weighted Pressure: Press your back firmly against a wall or use a weighted blanket. The deep pressure input (proprioception) helps the brain “locate” the body in space. * The “Humm”: Gently hum a low-pitched note. The vibration stimulates the Vagus Nerve, which runs through the throat and is the primary “off-switch” for the stress response.3. Cognitive “Anchors”If your mind is racing, give it a low-stakes mechanical task to perform. * The Categories Game: Pick a category (e.g., types of dogs, brands of tools, planets) and name as many as you can in 60 seconds. * Inventory Tracking: Look around and count every blue object in the room. Then count every square object. * Backward Subtraction: Start at 100 and subtract 7 repeatedly (100, 93, 86…). This requires enough “processing power” from your prefrontal cortex that it can help dampen the emotional flare-up.Comparison of Grounding Types| Method | Best For… | Why it works ||—|—|—|| Sensory (5-4-3-2-1) | Feeling “spaced out” or numb. | Re-establishes connection to the environment. || Cold Water / Pressure | Intense panic or racing heart. | Triggers a biological “forced” slowdown. || Cognitive Tasks | Intrusive thoughts or memories. | Diverts energy to the logical brain. |> Pro-tip: Don’t wait for a crisis to try these. Practice the 5-4-3-2-1 method when you are calm—like when you’re out at Monck Provincial Park looking at the stars. This builds the “muscle memory” so your brain knows exactly what to do when things get heavy.> Would you like me to create a simple, printable checklist of these techniques that you can keep in a wallet or on your phone for quick access?

Treatment/selfcare

This checklist is designed to be high-contrast and easy to read, even if your vision is blurred or your focus is scattered during a high-stress moment. You can take a screenshot of this on your phone or print it out.GROUNDING TOOLKIT: EMERGENCY RESETFocus on the present. You are safe. You are here.1. THE SENSORY ANCHOR (5-4-3-2-1)Acknowledge your surroundings one by one: * [ ] 5 SEE: Name 5 things you see right now (even small details). * [ ] 4 FEEL: Name 4 things you feel (feet on floor, fabric of clothes). * [ ] 3 HEAR: Name 3 sounds you hear (humming, wind, traffic). * [ ] 2 SMELL: Name 2 things you can smell (or favorite scents). * [ ] 1 TASTE: Name 1 thing you can taste (or your last meal).2. THE BIOLOGICAL “OFF-SWITCH”Force the nervous system to slow down: * [ ] ICE WATER: Splash ice-cold water on your face for 15 seconds. * [ ] VAGAL HUM: Hum a low note loudly; feel the vibration in your throat. * [ ] WALL PRESS: Push your hands or back against a wall as hard as you can. * [ ] BOX BREATH: Inhale 4s, Hold 4s, Exhale 4s, Hold 4s. Repeat 3x.3. THE LOGIC RE-ENGAGEMENTDivert brain power away from the “panic center”: * [ ] MATH: Subtract 7 from 100 repeatedly (93, 86, 79…). * [ ] CATEGORIES: Name 5 types of tools, 5 planets, or 5 car brands. * [ ] COLOR SCAN: Find and name every GREEN object in the room.> Reminder: Triggers are just “old data” being replayed by a brain trying to protect you. These steps prove to your body that the “data” is outdated and you are in the present moment.> Since we’ve talked about the “Planetary Parade” coming up on the 28th, would you like me to find a specific stargazing app or tool that can help you use the night sky as a regular grounding practice?

Check list sup /soft fascination

Stargazing is more than just a hobby; it is a powerful form of “Soft Fascination”—a clinical term for effortless attention that allows your brain’s “fight or flight” system to rest while your “rest and digest” (parasympathetic) system takes over.For a grounding-focused experience on February 28, I recommend Stellarium Mobile. It is widely considered the best for mental clarity because its interface is “no-frills” and highly realistic.Why Stellarium for Grounding? * Night Mode: It turns your screen red, which preserves your natural night vision and keeps your nervous system calm (blue light from phones can spike cortisol). * Sensor Control: You can point your phone at the sky, and it matches what you see. This acts as a “digital anchor,” connecting your hands, eyes, and the physical world. * The “Dive” into Deep Space: If you use the zoom feature, you can “dive” into a nebula or galaxy. Research shows that witnessing this type of “Awe” reduces the brain’s focus on the self and internal trauma-loops, providing immediate perspective.How to Use the Night Sky as a Mental “Reset”To turn the February 28 planetary alignment into a grounding session, try this “Star Bathing” routine: * Preparation: Go to Monck Provincial Park or even your backyard. Put your phone in Night Mode (Red) in the app settings. * Sensory Acclimatization: Sit in the dark for 15 minutes before looking at your phone or the stars. Let your eyes adjust. This period of stillness is a “buffer” for your nervous system. * The Planetary Anchor: Use the app to find the alignment. Identify Jupiter first—it will be the brightest “star” in the western sky. * Perspective Shift: Remind yourself of the mechanical scale. That light from Jupiter took about 40 minutes to reach your eyes. The trauma you are processing is real, but in the context of the cosmos, your nervous system is allowed to take a break from being “on guard.” * Soft Focus: Use your peripheral vision (looking slightly to the side of a star). This actually activates a different part of the brain associated with relaxation and spatial awareness, rather than the “focused” brain used for problem-solving and anxiety.Quick Access Toolkit| App | Best For | Vibe ||—|—|—|| Stellarium Mobile | Accuracy & Realism | Calming, scientific, clean. || SkyView Lite | AR (Augmented Reality) | Immersive, “video-game” feel, fun. || Star Walk 2 | Visual Beauty | High-end graphics and soothing music. |Would you like me to set a reminder for you on February 27th to check the weather forecast for Merritt so you can plan your trip to the lake?

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Landowner

Rural landowners, ones that don’t have access to a sewer system need to rely on percolation and the soils to condition their wastewater.

“Realtors may push to the buyer” the serious need to know “conditions,” paraphrased…

So, a couple of strategies to know the value of your land beforehand or before purchasing it. These can expedite permitting for living space or construction and not make a surprise that you are not able to live with.

Editor’s note:Diligence required

Ai warning

Images generated by AI can spread very quickly and can do a lot of damage if they are defamatory or inciting or just troubling.

The Chilliwack police have issued a warning two children about being careful about what they put online.

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