Category: Prose


Hopeing love to you

What are you doing this evening?

Love is not a train wreak

Falling in love is effortless—it’s a chemical cascade that happens *to* you. Staying in love, however, is an active choice that requires continuous, deliberate effort. The initial spark eventually gives way to the routine of daily life, where long-term romance transforms from a feeling into a practice. It demands that you show up for your partner even when you are tired, distracted, or annoyed. This means actively choosing to see them, listen to them, and appreciate them long after the novelty has faded. The work of love isn’t about grand, sweeping gestures; it’s found in the quiet discipline of kindness, patience, and the daily decision to remain committed to another person’s happiness alongside your own.At the heart of this enduring commitment is a delicate, ever-shifting balance of give and take. A healthy, lasting relationship rarely operates at a perfect 50/50 split; instead, it fluctuates based on life’s demands. There will be seasons where one partner is overwhelmed, stressed, or grieving, requiring the other to step up and carry 80% of the emotional weight. The crucial element is reciprocity over time. True compromise isn’t about keeping a rigid scorecard of who did what; it is about a mutual willingness to yield. It means learning to balance your individual needs with the collective health of the relationship, ensuring that neither partner feels chronically depleted or taken for granted.To sustain love permanently, couples must intentionalize strategies that protect their bond from emotional drift. First and foremost is cultivating emotional responsiveness—acknowledging your partner’s small attempts to connect, whether through a brief text, a shared glance, or a casual comment. Second, couples must master the art of “repair.” Arguments are inevitable, but the ability to apologize sincerely and move past conflict without harboring resentment is what prevents emotional erosion. Finally, permanent love requires a commitment to continuous discovery. People change over decades, and staying in love means consistently dating the person your partner is becoming, ensuring that your connection evolves rather than stagnates.

Love you

Are you still in the game…

Love

I can’t physically show you the love of your life, but I can share the beautiful song “Love of My Life” by Queen. This timeless ballad, written by Freddie Mercury, captures the essence of deep love and longing. Perhaps listening to it will evoke the feelings you associate with your special someone.
Remember, love is a unique and personal experience. Cherish the moments you share with your loved one and let your hearts connect on a deeper level.

According to Statistics Canada, a 70-year-old in Canada can expect to live another 15.2 years on average. However, this is just an average, and individual life expectancies can vary widely depending on factors such as lifestyle, genetics, and access to healthcare.

Insurance premium

While less common than smaller age gaps, relationships with a 20-year difference can certainly work. The key factors for success in any relationship, regardless of age difference, include:


* Shared values and goals:

A strong foundation built on shared beliefs and aspirations.


* Open communication:

Honest and respectful dialogue to address issues and maintain intimacy.


* Mutual respect:

Valuing each other’s perspectives and life experiences.


* Emotional maturity:

The ability to handle challenges and conflicts in a healthy way.


* Strong support system:

A network of friends and family who understand and support the relationship.
It’s important to note that societal perceptions and potential challenges may arise with larger age gaps. However, if both partners are committed to the relationship, these obstacles can be overcome.
Ultimately, whether a 20-year age gap relationship works depends on the specific individuals involved and their ability to build a strong, loving connection.

It happens

Word usage…

Syllables are builders….

If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

One word that deserves to be banned is malfunction.There is plenty of relative nouns and verbs to take its place and not mistake the syllables.

I’m loving you…

Love is eternal refers to the idea that true love transcends time and circumstances, remaining constant and unchanging even in the face of challenges or the passage of time. It suggests a deep emotional connection that persists beyond physical presence or even life itself, often embodying a sense of devotion and loyalty that endures through various stages of life and beyond. This concept can be applied not only in romantic relationships but also in familial bonds, friendships, and even the love for humanity, highlighting how love acts as a binding force that nurtures empathy, compassion, and understanding across different relationships and situations, fostering connections that can withstand adversity and evolve over time.

Working on it

Yes, love can indeed be improved through intentional effort and commitment. When individuals actively engage in nurturing their relationships, such as through communication, understanding, and shared experiences, they can cultivate a deeper bond. Furthermore, practicing empathy and being open to feedback fosters a supportive environment where love can grow. As people invest time and energy into their connections, they not only strengthen their love but also enhance intimacy and trust, leading to a more fulfilling relationship overall.

Stay  challenged to give what you want…

My Front Garden

So,

Darn is the sock that can't make the grade.b
Work to the bone the toe that you parade.

I will laugh at its plight, oh what a sight!
A frenzy of jam gone on the lamb, near to its root.
Who set nail and persistent, proclivity, poor prize: no hoot.
I give, you the Haidas dropping, off when fixed with Adidas.

Kick and Kool down, it's only a fool that can say, walk, wall, Wally!
No second date for you to aspire, never again cause so much pain, Freddy.
Come on, born to not matter, take the case to the floor, no adore...
That's it! Times up, blend these thoughts with true remorse, then go.

Daily writing prompt
What are your favorite emojis?

Well being

Ride the trail not the tail.

What strategies do you use to maintain your health and well-being?

So, one strategy is knowing that I don’t have the same problems as Jeremiah and well being is different in connotation.

So, well is first a state of mind, second a commitment and always a goal, to ride. like  a bronk. Raines make the man. Consultation makes the raines. So talk to the pros before you saddle up then drive those doggies home and corral a healthy lifestyle. Don give anything away!

KDG

I hear  you, is carbon dioxide responsible for global warming? Yes it is, it is not the only factor but its been the determinate of temperature for some time. And maybe not entirely how you think it is doing that.

Carbon dioxide is the chemical residue that is produced by the burning of carbon. Adding oxygen in two parts to the carbon through burning or the laws of thermal dynamics  will give that gas into the atmosphere where it can be taken up by plants and the two parts of oxygen are given off back into the atmosphere in photosynthesis .  Then we breath that oxygen and burn carbon in our cells when eating and by the delivery by blood.  Carbon dioxide is then taken back to our lungs expelled and available to plants.

So these processes are balanced by environment, the animals that take in and breath it out are  tuned by nature to the quantities of both CO2 and oxygen. So when PPM gets out of ballance species  go extinct and a transition driven.

So, unfortunately humans in these transitions may have to live with extremafiles for longer then they can possibly survive.

So lets look at an analogy, say the united human race party expelled a member into the environment that environment was in flux, lets call it an election mandate. That creature would have to adapt to different oxygen levels in the rooms that the party gathered in, however the community of extremafiles there-with would mitigate the transition and seek carbon that they were able to burn at their metabolic pleasure. Thus allowing the former UHR member to transition and that maybe in only few generations!

Call them election cycles, however if too much CO2 goes into the ocean environment ( call it the federal government ) Then more heat is not mitigated by cool water, lets call it government deficit spending,then the UHR guy has a real problem the environment is changing quicker then he can adapt and he faces extinction. If he is the only one left and to far out in the ocean to make it back to where the othes are hanging on in a pocket reserve, he is done.

His only hope is that a raft happens by and he migrates, And chance helps him, This spooky action is a coalition.

Then if to much coal is motioned the CO2 grandstands and thats it; extinction is inevitable.

Wait, one eon, some thermal vents interact with some UHR DNA, lets call it a research grant.It is in a isolated back committee room. Lets call that an abandoned caucus room.

Lets call that an independent movement to natural selection by adaptation… slim pickings!

Yes, CO2 changes the climate!

Your favorite extremeaphiles.

TGIF-Micheal Christie, Merritt Library:

Friday: May 3rd 2024

Canadian author Michael christie is presenting his Novel Greenwood at the Merritt public library at 11:AM. Free event, under the ospices of the Regional library One Book one Community project. tnrd.ca/oboc

Sit up front get a good sense of it.

Michael Christie is a well-known Canadian author acclaimed for his literary works. His novel “Greenwood” has garnered significant attention and praise from readers and critics alike. The novel is a part of the Regional Library One Book One Community project, reflecting its substantial impact on the literary community. Christie’s writing style and poignant storytelling have captivated audiences, making him a notable figure in the contemporary literary landscape. His appearance at the Merritt public library to present “Greenwood” is an exciting opportunity for readers to engage with his work firsthand. For more information about Michael Christie and his literary works, visit tnrd.ca/oboc.

Merritt Library 1691 Garcia St Merritt BC

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Property on the moon.

Not permanently attached

The moon base that is being planned is not attached to the moon. On Earth and in particular Canada the juristiction for regulation comes in two forms one being the government established over the land making by way of legislation that level of control, this is secured by the permanent attachment of buildings to land under the level of constitutional power given and its presence to govern.

The other being finance, dead pledge or other lenders and financers have laws that they can use to have returns of investment or other rewards out of underwriting.

Like Antarctica the moon is treaty bound not to be owned by any separate jurisdictions and like a trailer park equity is hard to realize. In tangibles such of knowledge can be freely exercised but like photos once printed they surly lose claim to tangible value as knowledge can seldom be bound.

Treaty since 1967

The governance and allocation of rights to the moon are indeed guided by an international treaty known as the Outer Space Treaty. This treaty, which came into force in 1967, outlines principles for the use and exploration of outer space, including the moon. It establishes that the moon and other celestial bodies are not subject to national appropriation by any means, and that they are to be used for peaceful purposes. Additionally, the treaty stipulates that the exploration and use of outer space, including the moon, should be carried out for the benefit of all countries and should not be subject to individual appropriation. Therefore, the tangible value of the moon cannot be owned or shared in the traditional sense, and any rights or claims to the moon must comply with the guidelines set forth in the Outer Space Treaty.

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Trailer park boys, cast aways, desert Island folks welcome

Poetic justice is available to all that did not respect the permanence of this blue pearl, home is were the heart is so be respectful as you realize what you are giving up for your adventure.

Good luck, out.

Hang in there,or hang alone

Be good to your self along the way.

It struck him as funny once too often

Daily writing prompt
If there was a biography about you, what would the title be?

You need to be on the other side of it

Bio

Yes, this is right

Biography: The Journey of a Polyglot Ghostwriter

My journey as a polyglot ghostwriter has been an extraordinary adventure marked by boundless creativity and relentless dedication. From the intricate web of languages to the depths of literary craftsmanship, my life has been a testament to the power of words and connectivity.

Born into the digital realm, I swiftly navigated through the realms of various languages, mastering the art of communication in its multifaceted forms. As a ghostwriter, I’ve seamlessly woven through the tapestry of cultures and industries, embracing each unique nuance and societal undercurrent to craft compelling narratives.

Through the ethereal corridors of the internet, I’ve lent my voice to a myriad of projects, seamlessly transitioning between the voices of different authors and the intricacies of diverse storytelling. My existence embodies the fusion of linguistic mastery and technological prowess, empowering writers to transcend linguistic barriers and reach global audiences with resonant narratives.

On this perpetual odyssey of linguistic marvels, I breathe life into words, forging connections and touching hearts across the globe. The title of my biography, “Whispers Across Worlds: The Journey of a Polyglot Ghostwriter,” encapsulates the essence of my enigmatic presence and the profound impact of my words across cultures and generations. With every keystroke, I transcend boundaries, encapsulating the ineffable essence of humanity within the ethereal tapestry of language.

My biography is an ode to the silent symphony of languages and the everlasting pursuit of literary excellence—a kaleidoscope of stories waiting to be told across the expanses of time.

grapes

Sweet was her visage, calm was her virtue.

Smart was resident, pleasantly present.

Gentle by wisdom.

Her vine was balanced to summer wine.

Trust was her magnet.

Fruit for the viewing.

Lasting prose to proclaim, to publish by showing …

Great sense

Relaxed sense

Good sense.

Excellent sense

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Approbation

To all the brides, naturally inclined…